1) I remember being 23, searching for an agent for my first finished manuscript (which ultimately I’ve never published though someday I’ll rework it) and telling my bestie over drinks that I NEEDED to be published by 25. I wasn’t. Recently I visited my bestie and saw a stack of my published books on his shelf.
Well my writing today for Cure for Sleep is about missed writing opportunities so this couldn't be more pertinent. Last week I was filling in gaps from her series 1 on how childhood stories shape us. Then Tanya reposted that very prompt for the start of series 4! Serendipitous I think.
Thanks Suzy, it was good to read this today, not so much for me (although it is helpful for me too) but for how I could inspire and support my daughter, as she struggles to remain hopeful about finding a job that builds on her recent training.
Yes, getting and applying for new jobs can be tough. I believe that's all about getting really comfortable with rejection. I remember at journalist college, someone very talented but quite mean saying to me...'why are you getting all the commissions, I'm much more talented than you'. She was. BUT I pitched 20 articles to every 1 and if she got rejected, it took her weeks to bounce back. I was more 'next'! I'm not saying it's easy being rejected but the more we can reframe it (just getting nearer to where you want to go)the easier it becomes.
This is such a timely reminder, lovely piece Suzy!
I've been trying to convey some of this to a friend recently so I'll be forwarding to her ASAP ... "brick by brick" 💚
Thanks Suzy.
You never cease to amaze me. 🌅
Beautiful share.
A few things immediately come to mind ...
1) I remember being 23, searching for an agent for my first finished manuscript (which ultimately I’ve never published though someday I’ll rework it) and telling my bestie over drinks that I NEEDED to be published by 25. I wasn’t. Recently I visited my bestie and saw a stack of my published books on his shelf.
2) synchronicity - a memory just popped up on my phone today of reading Molly Peacock’s book The Paper Garden: Mrs. Delany Begins Her Life's Work At 72 https://www.mollypeacock.org/life-stories/thepapergarden
3) the Julia Cameron quote: “But do you know how old I will be by the time I learn to really play the piano / act / paint / write a decent play?"
Yes . . . the same age you will be if you don't.”
That Julia Cameron quote is one of my favourites!
So kind. Thoroughly enjoying the co-working space.
Well my writing today for Cure for Sleep is about missed writing opportunities so this couldn't be more pertinent. Last week I was filling in gaps from her series 1 on how childhood stories shape us. Then Tanya reposted that very prompt for the start of series 4! Serendipitous I think.
Synconicity, as Julia Cameron writes in The Artist's Way. You are on the right path.
What a lovely read Suzy! 👏
We’re lucky in that writing is a very achievable thing to be doing in later life, all we need is ourselves and a pen. 🖊️
Yes, a pen and a piece of paper and then we're off!
Thanks heavens, so much more achievable than an Ironman. 😂
My last boyfriend looked like Ironman. So whether it's a man or an adventurous mission, I'll give the ironmen a miss! 😂
I’m convinced they’re all just trying to get out of the childcare, with all that training. 😂
Thanks Suzy, it was good to read this today, not so much for me (although it is helpful for me too) but for how I could inspire and support my daughter, as she struggles to remain hopeful about finding a job that builds on her recent training.
Yes, getting and applying for new jobs can be tough. I believe that's all about getting really comfortable with rejection. I remember at journalist college, someone very talented but quite mean saying to me...'why are you getting all the commissions, I'm much more talented than you'. She was. BUT I pitched 20 articles to every 1 and if she got rejected, it took her weeks to bounce back. I was more 'next'! I'm not saying it's easy being rejected but the more we can reframe it (just getting nearer to where you want to go)the easier it becomes.
Yes, I agree. I think it’s about reframing her expectations and doing the things in her control. Xx
Oh, and I loved your line: ‘I don’t even need to get the wheelbarrow out.’
Made me laugh out loud as my defaults is ‘of course we need the wheelbarrow!’. But you are right, we don’t.
One brick at a time! I'm someone who can overcomplicate things. So if I just keep focusing on moving one brick -it's really simple!